Flirting and body language for women

Body language employed effectively, is the most priceless weapon in the flirting artillery. While the way you groom yourself and the verbal language you use matters, the way you conduct yourself and the image you project is even more crucial. A few tips to make the most of your body language and flirt your way to success:

Lips

Whether or not you’ve got rosebud lips or a kissable mouth, wear lipstick that attracts. For some, bold colors look good. A slash of red (as long as it is not too garish) provides a great contrast with your pearly whites. Or a hint of gloss that makes lips look they’re begging to be kissed. Running your tongue over your lips (especially the upper lip), pouting your mouth, biting your lower lip in apparent indecision or even sticking your tongue out cheekily if the moment calls for it, are great ways to draw attention to your mouth.

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Hips

Women have been given hips (as much as they bemoan them at times!) for a reason. While you don’t have to gyrate them obviously, moving them seductively while dancing, or slightly swaying them while walking, makes a man realize just why God made women!

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Legs

If you’ve got the long, endless, toned kind of legs show them to maximum effect in a mini skirt and high heels. So you’ve heard that one before, but seriously, it makes men think of Julia Roberts in 'Pretty Woman' and how she wrapped her legs around Richard Gere in the sensual tub scene. Even a pair of tight jeans does wonders for good legs. And how about a little crossing and uncrossing of your legs? After all, look what it did for Sharon Stone in 'Fatal Attraction', and you don’t even have to go as far as she did! There’s something so ladylike about a woman sitting with her legs crossed. Yet if you’re wearing a really short skirt, the thoughts a guy has are far from gentlemanly!

Hands

Get a good manicure, and if you can afford the luxury of having long nails, do it. Men just love delicate, shapely hands with nails that bring to mind back-clawing episodes in moments of passion! Lightly toying with the locket of your necklace or curling a strand of hair round your fingers are typically feminine gestures that men love to watch. As a woman (unlike a man), you enjoy the luxury of never being accused of ‘taking advantage’. So on the pretext of checking out the time (always assuming you’re not wearing a watch) or his designer watch, you could take his hand in yours. Or you could lightly jab him in the chest to make a point, or even place your finger lightly on his lips and trail them down his chin in a gesture of mock protest, to silence him! And whether you’re male or female, just smile. Whether it’s a cocky grin, a bold smile or a shy one, a giggle or even a laugh, it adds that element of flirtatious fun that makes you want to hold on to that moment and never let it go!